terms & conditions

This license shall automatically terminate if you violate any of these restrictions and may be terminated by Company at any time. Upon terminating your viewing of these materials or upon the termination of this license, you must destroy any downloaded materials in your possession whether in electronic or printed format.

Cancellation & Refund

You are free to cancel your membership at any time, and you will retain access to all program materials until your current payment period is complete. 

While there is no financial penalty for cancelling, we do not provide refunds nor do we prorate any uncompleted time in the program. You must cancel at least 3 business days before your auto payment is charged, or you will be charged for an additional month of the program.  

Confidentiality & Code of Conduct

We require all members of the coaching program to read the terms of this Confidentiality Agreement and Code of Conduct, and agree to abide by them before acceptance into the program.


The purpose of these agreements are to protect the privacy of the material presented in the program, as well as maintain the integrity of the group and its members.

Knowing that everyone has agreed to the terms will make it easier for us to elaborate on content freely in the group, live sessions, webinars, material shared/offered, trainings, and any other means of communication with members.

If you do not agree...

If you do not agree to the terms in this Confidentiality Agreement you will be voluntarily choosing to not participate in the coaching program.

If you do agree...

All information you hear and or receive within the Coaching Program will be considered Confidential Information, unless the subject of that information clearly states otherwise. This information may be personal or business.

You agree that you will not disclose any of this Confidential Information to anyone who is NOT a member of the program, and that violating any confidentiality will be grounds for immediate removal from the group, and forfeiture of your membership fees.

Group Confidentiality Agreement

It is understood and agreed to that the identified discloser of confidential information may provide certain information that is and must be kept confidential.

To ensure the protection of such information, and to preserve any confidentiality necessary under copyright, patent and/or trade secret laws, it is agreed that:

The Confidential Information to be disclosed can be described as including, but is not limited to: any personal information, workplace, location, financials, relationship status, family, personal connection, current or future plans, regardless of whether such information is designated as “Confidential Information” at the time of its disclosure.

The Recipient agrees not to disclose the confidential information obtained from the discloser to anyone unless required to do so by law.

This Agreement states the entire agreement between the parties concerning the disclosure of Confidential Information. 

If any of the provisions of this Agreement are found to be unenforceable, the remainder shall be enforced as fully as possible and the unenforceable provision(s) shall be deemed modified to the limited extent required to permit enforcement of the Agreement as a whole.

WHEREFORE, the parties acknowledge that they have read and understand this Agreement and voluntarily accept the duties and obligations set forth herein.

Code of Conduct

The Coaching Program is your space to connect, create, share, and inspire while you build a successful, profitable, and predictable online business. It’s up to us to keep the ACTIVATE community a safe, accepting and encouraging group for everyone, so please read the Code of Conduct below:

1. Be Kind.

We have a zero tolerance policy for negativity, bullying, drama, gossip, or toxic energy. Encourage and support your fellow members. While healthy discussion is encouraged, your words should be chosen carefully and spoken with love and respect.

Please work hard to make sure that no one in our community feels unwelcome or judged; treat everyone with kindness, love, patience and respect. If you disagree or have an opposing viewpoint to share, do it with respect, honor and from a place of compassion.

Spirited debate about ideas or concepts is awesome, personal attacks are not. If you can’t be kind, be quiet. Violation of this rule is grounds for immediate and permanent removal from the group.

2. Don't Trash Talk. 

This is a no trash talking zone about Kate, the Betrayed Wife, the coaching program, or anyone else. We don’t put anyone down, be it other products, programs or people. This applies to issues with other members as well.

Do not create drama by stating “A certain person did X and I’m so upset” or “Someone in this group did Y, that wasn’t cool.”

If you have an issue or grievance – either with the program, or each other, bring it directly to the party you have issue with, and/or write directly to our support team at support@thebetrayedwife.com

3. Be Generous

Give more than you ask. Share what you’re working on, but keep a larger emphasis on sharing support, wisdom, and encouragement. Think 3:1. Give 3 times more support, insight, and encouragement than you ask for.

By adopting this Code of Conduct, members commit themselves to fairly and consistently applying these principles to every aspect of participating in this group.

Members who do not follow the Code of Conduct will have their membership revoked and forfeit any payments made.

This Code of Conduct applies both within project spaces and in public spaces when an individual is representing the project or its community. 

Instances of abusive, harassing, or otherwise unacceptable behavior may be reported by contacting support@thebetrayedwife.com 

All complaints will be reviewed and investigated and will result in a response that is deemed necessary and appropriate to the circumstances. Members are obligated to maintain confidentiality with regard to the reporter of an incident.


In no event shall the School be liable for any damages (including, without limitation, damages for loss of data or profit, or due to business interruption) arising out of the use or inability to use the materials on the School’s website, even if the School or an authorized of the School has been notified orally or in writing of the possibility of such damage. Because some jurisdictions do not allow limitations on implied warranties, or limitations of liability for consequential or incidental damages, these limitations may not apply to you.

Revisions and Errata

The materials appearing on the School’s website may include technical, typographical, or photographic errors. The School does not warrant that any of the materials on its web site are accurate, complete, or current. The School may make changes to the materials contained on its web site at any time without notice. The School does not, however, make any commitment to update the materials.


The School has not reviewed all of the sites linked to its website and is not responsible for the contents of any such linked site. The inclusion of any link does not imply endorsement by the School of the site. Use of any such linked website is at the user's own risk.

Site Terms of Use Modifications

The School may revise these Terms of Use for its website at any time without notice. By using this website you are agreeing to be bound by the then current version of these Terms of Use.

Course Terms of Use


The materials on the School’s website are provided 'as is'. The School makes no warranties, expressed or implied, and hereby disclaims and negates all other warranties, including without limitation, implied warranties or conditions of merchantability, fitness for a particular purpose, or non-infringement of intellectual property or other violation of rights. Further, the School does not warrant or make any representations concerning the accuracy, likely results, or reliability of the use of the materials on its website or otherwise relating to such materials or on any sites linked to this site.

additional terms & conditions

This website (the “Site”) is owned and operated by The Betrayed Wife “thebetrayedwife.com.” (“TBW,” “we” or “us”). By using the Site, you agree to be bound by these Terms of Service and to use the Site in accordance with these Terms of Service, our Privacy Policy and any additional terms and conditions that may apply to specific sections of the Site or to products and services available through the Site or from TBW. Accessing the Site, in any manner, whether automated or otherwise, constitutes use of the Site and your agreement to be bound by these Terms of Service.

We reserve the right to change these Terms of Service or to impose new conditions on use of the Site, from time to time, in which case we will post the revised Terms of Service on this website. By continuing to use the Site after we post any such changes, you accept the Terms of Service, as modified.

Intellectual Property Rights

Our Limited License to You. This Site and all the materials available on the Site are the property of us and/or our affiliates or licensors, and are protected by copyright, trademark, and other intellectual property laws. The Site is provided solely for your personal noncommercial use. You may not use the Site or the materials available on the Site in a manner that constitutes an infringement of our rights or that has not been authorized by us. More specifically, unless explicitly authorized in these Terms of Service or by the owner of the materials, you may not modify, copy, reproduce, republish, upload, post, transmit, translate, sell, create derivative works, exploit, or distribute in any manner or medium (including by email or other electronic means) any material from the Site. You may, however, from time to time, download and/or print one copy of individual pages of the Site for your personal, non-commercial use, provided that you keep intact all copyright and other proprietary notices. You may not share your access with another party other than yourself.


The Site and Services provided by The Betrayed Wife are purely educational. They are offered only as general information and in no way are intended, nor should they be considered professional, registered, certified, or expert advice in the areas of psychological, emotional, or physical well-being.

You should never disregard any Professional Advice (including but not limited to medical, mental health, legal, financial or other forms of Professional Advice) or delay seeking it because of a statement you have read and/or heard on the Betrayed Wife's Site and/or Services.

Users must take full responsibility for their use of and participation in The Betrayed Wife's Site and/or Services.

The Betrayed Wife may, from time to time, publish articles and resources provided by independent content contributors – we (TheBetrayedWife) are not responsible for and do not necessarily hold the opinions expressed by these content contributors.

Users who purchase any aspect of The Betrayed Wife's Services must disclose any health or well-being concerns that may impact upon their ability to use or participate in the Services, or which may in any way be affected upon by their use or participation. Users must undertake full personal responsibility for looking after their health and well-being before, during, and after using or participating in the Services. Users must advise TheBetrayedWife immediately if their situation should change concerning either, and users must take full responsibility for immediately ceasing use of the Site and/or Services.

Users must disclose any other coaching, Therapy, professional care, treatment or counseling they are receiving. And users must accept full responsibility for advising their coaches, therapists, treatment providers, healthcare professionals and/or counselors that they are using or participating in any type of Services provided by or through TheBetrayedWife.

Users accept that TheBetrayedWife provides general information and support in personal growth and positive living ideas, inspiration, life coaching, and relationship coaching and that TheBetrayedWife, or any representative of TheBetrayedWife, is not a psychotherapist, psychologist, therapist, counselor, or registered health or well-being practitioner. Users acknowledge that the Site and Services provided by or through TheBetrayedWife are in no way designed as a substitute for the care, support, or instruction of registered, qualified health and well-being practitioners.

Users of Services may be required to respond to personal declaration questions or questionnaires during the purchase process, before accessing the Services. Such responses are held in the strictest of confidence. Users agree to provide full and accurate information in the above-mentioned questions or questionnaires and agree to provide full and accurate information in response to any further questions asked of them during the use of Services.

Users acknowledge that while utilizing the Site or Services, they have the right at all times to personally choose whether or not to participate in any form of idea, tool or technique presented for general personal growth. If they choose to participate, they do so of their own free will and assume and accept all responsibility for any risks associated.

While using the Site or Services, users acknowledge that such use or participation may involve focusing on emotional distress issues, which may include recalling past events, memories, or experiences. Users acknowledge that they will take responsibility for ceasing the use of the Site and Services immediately at any time they are not comfortable doing so. While many people report positive experiences with the contents of the Site and Services, users are hereby expressly informed that it is also possible to experience mental and emotional distress or physical discomfort during or after such use or participation. If users experience discomfort or negative side effects, they are asked to stop use and participation, and it is recommended that they consult a registered health and well-being professional where appropriate.

The Site and Services are not being suggested in any way as being a cure, treatment or prevention tool for any mental/emotional disorder or physical health issue or relationship issue. It is strongly advised that users seek appropriate care from a registered health and well-being professionals and treat all Site and Services content as alternative tools for personal growth that may act as a compliment.

Users acknowledge that private one-on-one sessions, public group sessions, courses, programs, classes, workshops, retreats, or events provided by TheBetrayedWife may be recorded into audio-video format. Where the aforementioned is a private one-on-one session, such an audio or video recording is only made with the express permission of the User for the sole purpose of providing the User with an audio recording of their session/s afterwards as a valuable resource for reflection to listen back to. Users acknowledge that they have the option to choose whether their sessions are recorded. If they do not wish to have their session/s recorded in this way, they will immediately advise TheBetrayedWife. Public and/or group sessions, courses, programs, classes, workshops, webinars, retreats, or events, whether offered free or as a paid Service by or through the TheBetrayedWife, may be recorded in video and/or audio format to deliver upon the requirements of our Services, to operate our core business, or for improving upon our business operations. By attending, watching, listening, using or participating in such Services, Users agree to such recordings being made.

There is no guarantee of any specific outcome with utilizing or participating in TheBetrayedWife's Site or Services. This is because every individual person has a very unique status of mind, emotions, past history, present circumstances and varying ability to understand and apply any tips, tools or processes. The content of this Site, including testimonials from previous or existing Users of the Site and Services, is not in any way implying or creating an indication or expectation of a specific outcome, a promise of a guaranteed outcome, or a suggestion or direction that you create change, or take action, in any particular area of your life. All results and potential results discussed or noted are hypothetical unless otherwise stated. No representation is being made that any action you take will or is likely to achieve particular results. There are frequently significant differences for individual's use or participating in the Site and Services based mostly upon the individual. All testimonials on the Site are unsolicited and are potentially non-representative of all Users. Some names of Users associated with testimonials have been withheld for privacy purposes only. Users of the Site and Services are welcome to contact support@thebetrayedwife.com before using and/or purchasing any aspect of the Site and Services if users wish first to obtain a better understanding of a generally expected result based on their unique situation. Wherever possible, we will endeavor to estimate a generally expected result based on a user's information about their individual status of mindset, emotions, history, present circumstances, and likely ability to understand and apply tips, tools, and processes provided.

Many people find the Site and Services (including but not limited to coaching, courses, programs, membership, and products) to be beneficial and gratifying. However, it is not prudent for everyone. Your safety and our responsibility is taken seriously. If you have questions or concerns about whether or not our Site and Services are suitable for your use or application, please contact a registered professional with the expertise to advise you. You are responsible for your choice to use or participate in any aspect of our Site and Services. You are responsible for your well-being and mental health during and after your participation. Your experience as a result of such use or participation will be unique to you as an individual. You may have the experience of unexpected and undesirable emotions as you participate. For most people, examining thoughts and beliefs they've never explored before is a beneficial and constructive learning experience. If you are in any way concerned about your capability in handling any unexpected or undesirable emotions that might surface while using or participating, we strongly advise you to not participate. If you have a history of mental illness, whether treated or untreated, we strongly recommend you not participating. If you are unsure whether TheBetrayedWife's Site and Services are appropriate for you, or are uncertain of your ability (physically, emotionally, or mentally) to use or participate, we recommend you consult with a registered professional with the expertise to advise you before starting. The Site and Services are intended for individuals who fully and undoubtedly comprehend that they are responsible for their own health, well-being, and choices before, during, and after using and participating. The Site and Services are NOT in any way to be utilized as an alternative for Therapy, psychotherapy or any healthcare program. If you experience any signs or evidence of mental distress during or after your use or participation, we strongly advise that you immediately contact your physician or mental health care professional. DO NOT begin to use or participate in the Site and Services if your other healthcare provider advises you not to. You should not rely on the information provided by TheBetrayedWife as a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Nor does the information within the Site or Services replace professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have any concerns or questions about your physical or mental health, you should always consult with a healthcare professional. Do not disregard, avoid or delay acquiring medical advice from your healthcare provider because of something you may have read or heard while using the Site or Services. Any information provided is used solely at your own risk. The content and material presented are for educational and informational purposes only.

User actions and the results of their actions regarding anything they receive from TheBetrayedWife are entirely their own responsibility. TheBetrayedWife cannot and will not assume liability for any results that may follow the use of any information obtained from TheBetrayedWife's Site or Services. Any such liability is hereby expressly disclaimed. By using the Site or Services, users agree not to hold TheBetrayedWife or a representative of TheBetrayedWife in any way responsible or liable for any experience associated with their use or participation (including before, during or after the provision), nor for any of their experiences, choices, actions or results.

Before using or applying information on the Site or Services, Users agree that they have the right and free will to choose to seek external, independent advice from professionals before proceeding.

Third Party Sites

Throughout the Site, we may provide links and pointers to Internet sites maintained by third parties. Our linking to such third-party sites does not imply an endorsement or sponsorship of such sites or the information, products, or services offered on or through the sites. In addition, neither we nor affiliates operate or control in any respect any information, products, or services that third parties may provide on or through the Site or on websites linked to by us on the Site.

If applicable, any opinions, advice, statements, services, offers, or other information or content expressed or made available by third parties, including information providers, are those of the respective authors or distributors, and not The Betrayed Wife. Neither TBW nor any third-party provider of information guarantees the accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any content. Furthermore, TBW neither endorses nor is responsible for the accuracy and reliability of any opinion, advice, or statement made on any of the Sites by anyone other than an authorized TBW representative while acting in his/her official capacity.



You agree at all times to defend, indemnify and hold harmless TBW its affiliates, their successors, transferees, assignees and licensees, and their respective parent and subsidiary companies, agents, associates, officers, directors, shareholders, and employees of each from and against any and all claims, causes of action, damages, liabilities, costs, and expenses, including legal fees and expenses, arising out of or related to your breach of any obligation, warranty, representation or covenant set forth herein.

Online Commerce

Certain sections of the Site may allow you to purchase many different types of products and services online that are provided by third parties. We are not responsible for the quality, accuracy, timeliness, reliability or any other aspect of these products and services. If you make a purchase from a merchant on the Site or on a site linked to by the Site, the information obtained during your visit to that merchant’s online store or site, and the information that you give as part of the transaction, such as your credit card number and contact information, may be collected by both the merchant and us. A merchant may have privacy and data collection practices that are different from ours. We have no responsibility or liability for these independent policies. In addition, when you purchase products or services on or through the Site, you may be subject to additional terms and conditions that specifically apply to your purchase or use of such products or services. For more information regarding a merchant, its online store, its privacy policies, and/or any additional terms and conditions that may apply, visit that merchant’s website and click on its information links or contact the merchant directly. You release us and our affiliates from any damages that you incur and agree not to assert any claims against us or them, arising from your purchase or use of any products or services made available by third parties through the Site.

Your participation, correspondence, or business dealings with any third party found on or through our Site, regarding payment and delivery of specific goods and services, and any other terms, conditions, representations or warranties associated with such dealings, are solely between you and such third party. You agree that TBW shall not be responsible or liable for any loss, damage, or other matters of any sort incurred as the result of such dealings.

You agree to be financially responsible for all purchases made by you or someone acting on your behalf through the Site. You agree to use the Site and to purchase services or products through the Site for legitimate, non-commercial purposes only. You also agree not to make any purchases for speculative, false or fraudulent purposes or for the purpose of anticipating demand for a particular product or service. You agree to only purchase goods or services for yourself or for another person for whom you are legally permitted to do so. When making a purchase for a third party that requires you to submit the third party’s personal information to us or a merchant, you represent that you have obtained the express consent of such third party to provide such third party’s personal information.


To access certain features of the Site, we may ask you to provide certain demographic information including your gender, year of birth, zip code, and country. In addition, if you elect to sign-up for a particular feature of the Site, such as chat rooms, weblogs, or bulletin boards, you may also be asked to register with us on the form provided and such registration may require you to provide personally identifiable information such as your name and email address. You agree to provide true, accurate, current, and complete information about yourself as prompted by the Site’s registration form. If we have reasonable grounds to suspect that such information is untrue, inaccurate, or incomplete, we have the right to suspend or terminate your account and refuse any and all current or future use of the Site (or any portion thereof). Our use of any personally identifiable information you provide to us as part of the registration process is governed by the terms of our Privacy Policy.


To use certain features of the Site, you will need a username and password, which you will receive through the Site’s registration process. You are responsible for maintaining the confidentiality of the password and account and are responsible for all activities (whether by you or by others) that occur under your password or account. You agree to notify us immediately of any unauthorized use of your password or account or any other breach of security, and to ensure that you exit from your account at the end of each session. We cannot and will not be liable for any loss or damage arising from your failure to protect your password or account information.


We may cancel or terminate your right to use the Site or any part of the Site at any time without notice. In the event of cancellation or termination, you are no longer authorized to access the part of the Site affected by such cancellation or termination. The restrictions imposed on you with respect to material downloaded from the Site, and the disclaimers and limitations of liabilities set forth in these Terms of Service, shall survive.


The Digital Millennium Copyright Act of 1998 (the “DMCA”) provides recourse for copyright owners who believe that material appearing on the Internet infringes their rights under the U.S. copyright law. If you believe in good faith that materials hosted by TBW infringe your copyright, you, or your agent may send to TBW a notice requesting that the material be removed or access to it be blocked. Any notification by a copyright owner or a person authorized to act on its behalf that fails to comply with requirements of the DMCA shall not be considered sufficient notice and shall not be deemed to confer upon TBW actual knowledge of facts or circumstances from which infringing material or acts are evident. If you believe in good faith that a notice of copyright infringement has been wrongly filed against you, the DMCA permits you to send to TBW a counter-notice. All notices and counter-notices must meet the then-current statutory requirements imposed by the DMCA; see http://www.loc.gov/copyright for details. TBW’s Copyright Agent for notice of claims of copyright infringement or counter notices can be reached as follows: support@thebetrayedwife.com

This Agreement shall be binding upon and inure to the benefit of TBW and our respective assigns, successors, heirs, and legal representatives. Neither this Agreement nor any rights hereunder may be assigned without the prior written consent of TBW. Notwithstanding the foregoing, all rights and obligations under this Agreement may be freely assigned by TBW to any affiliated entity or any of its wholly-owned subsidiaries.

These Terms of Use shall be governed by and construed in accordance with the laws of New Zealand. If any provision of this agreement shall be unlawful, void or for any reason unenforceable, then that provision shall be deemed severable from this agreement and shall not affect the validity and enforceability of any remaining provisions.

privacy policy

The privacy of visitors to thebetrayedwife.com is important to me.

At thebetrayedwife.com, I recognize that privacy of your personal information is important. Here is information on what types of personal information we receive and collect when you use and visit thebetrayedwife.com, and how I safeguard your information. I never sell your personal information to third parties.

Log Files
As with most other websites, I collect and use the data contained in log files. The information in the log files include  your IP (internet protocol) address, your ISP (internet service provider, such as AOL or Shaw Cable), the browser you used to visit my site (such as Internet Explorer or Firefox), the time you visited our site and which pages you visited throughout our site.

Cookies and Web Beacons
I do use cookies to store information, such as your personal preferences when you visit our site. This could include only showing you a popup once in your visit, or the ability to login to some of our features, such as forums.

I also use third party advertisements on thebetrayedwife.com to support my site. Some of these advertisers may use technology such as cookies and web beacons when they advertise on our site, which will also send these advertisers (such as Google through the Google AdSense program) information including your IP address, your ISP , the browser you used to visit our site, and in some cases, whether you have Flash installed. This is generally used for geotargeting purposes (showing New York real estate ads to someone in New York, for example) or showing certain ads based on specific sites visited (such as showing cooking ads to someone who frequents cooking sites).

You can chose to disable or selectively turn off our cookies or third-party cookies in your browser settings, or by managing preferences in programs such as Norton Internet Security. However, this can affect how you are able to interact with my site as well as other websites. This could include the inability to login to services or programs, such as logging into forums or accounts.